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 Sumtymz in life we dont realize the importance of  "A person"  ..who  completely changed it.  Yes, itz true -  "People are just attached to us by their  own needs"   , but others who are reallii attached to someone in their life wont ever understand it, as they think d one they love is true n best...till they get betrayed ! well..everyone isn't the same, but all are not true either..no matter how much you trust anyone, at some point it has to break. one or the other way.  

Funny, you give your best to 'A Person' , care for them, love them, stand up for them everytime...n wen tym comes they throw 'your' trust away without realizing how much pains you took for them. No one is true. You are your own best friend.  Things change and people change. We cant change the world , their thinking or anything...its just ourself whom we can change. We should not keep anything in our heart for anyone, coz a person who speaks out anything and everything in anger is much better who accumulates things in his mind or heart. Everyone goes through a phase in their life when things seems to change beyond we imagine. I went through the same (and this was the 3rd time i can say)...at a point my mind was blank n i was completely astounded by the way things went..at first place i thought i cant cope up..but by god's grace m being surrounded by so much positive people who didnt allow me to get down ! Well.."move on" is a l'il two word sentence which I'll never forget in my  "LIFE"   ever  !!

sumtymz the beautiful relations like friendship n love seems to be a pretense isn't it ?

 

yeah it does ! 'Experience' is what we get from time...long years spent with someone so special can be broken into seconds... into so small pieces that no-one can gather back those pieces, no matter how much efforts we put in. If 'you' break a beautiful relation coz of some stupidity...then it wont ever come back..the bitterness will always be there. Well, yes, life does show us its different phases .. You cant judge anyone from the things they do or say for you, true character is known when an adverse situation occurs. Telling Some one you love them doesnot actually means they do, sum saying are mere words not from heart..and I have experienced that very well ! No one can hurt us..we are the ones who allow ourself to be wounded by the actions or words of someone coz of our trust in them which broke or any other reason. I have learnt from my mom - "NO REVENGE.  CHANGE URSELF" . Earlier when she used to tell me this, i used to look the other way n take it as a joke, as i believed in "Tit For Tat" ..but slowly i realized the power of " SILENCE " which is unfathomable...n the kind of positive energy i get now is just unimagined by me...but still i havent conquered that completely but m on my way !! n i know "I'LL  WIN" : )   !!

Just now i read somewhere 'Time takes a toll on every human relationship' ... whatever happens...happens for good...We should not demand anything from anyone in our lives thinking that person would not mind coz he/she is so close to me, coz we'll never be able to know who is what from inside except ourselves . "I AM CONTENT N HAPPY WITH MYSELF"  that's d mantra of true living. 

 So love yourself, love your god, mom-dad, n everyone and most importantly i"Always Smile" . Just one "LIFE"  is given to us by almighty. You never know when he' ll take it back, so never hurt anyone intentionally or unintentionally n always do good , coz   " What goes around, comes around " !!      

                

GOD BLESS ♥

The greatest treasure we have is the smile , no one knows what is hidden in it ! 

♥  Always  Smile  ♥